I Play video games, I like tabletop RPG’s, I talk in strange voices purely to amuse myself and now my newborn daughter, I read comics, I view the world through rose-colored-glasses and with a cynical Monocle – simultaneously, I’ve been a hippy and a Goth, I’m an artist and a musician and a writer and want to make it in all three areas, I internalize everything and transform it into a part of my personality, I’m a Nerd, I’m a Geek, I’m a Spaz, I’m a Dork, I don’t do religion but I do walk a spiritual path, I love being social but also love being left the fuck alone, I love being who I am and sometimes I get on my Bloody-Damned-Nerves, I’m a shy extrovert, I am confidently self-conscious, I have thick skin but I’m delicately fragile, I love you and want nothing from you yet I want everything you have to give, I am a serious goofball, I am a calm mind with a Bruce Banner Complex, I would love a long huge hug and I want to punch someone in the face right afterwards (no not you), I feel as strong as Samson but sometimes I feel like I’m six years old again and I don’t know what I’m doing, I am a lone stranger with all of the friends and loved ones a man can hope for, I am spirit guide and trickster, I am the lightning in the dark, the roar of thunder on a sunny day, I make art for myself but I want terribly for people to understand me…
**deep breath**
I am who I am, and I am constantly evolving
and I am a wierd motherfucker!!
Okay, now that we’ve got that out of the way, lets continue with something that might make more sense to the people who don’t know me.
I am a 31 year old African American Male – that being said, I do not act like the “typical” Black Male. Sometimes I get a lot of crap for it, my response is usually a middle finger in their general direction.
I am originally from New Orleans, LA. (No, I’m not a Saints fan, so don’t ask)
I currently live in Tacoma, WA with my beautiful Wife and an adorable Daughter. My Wife is White, which makes our Daughter bi-racial. We tend not to notice these things.
I am a Musician and a Writer and as a result I am both an Audiophile as well as a Bibliophile.
I’m a INFP, and proud to be so (If you don’t know what that means, Google is your friend.)
I have 2 awesome Boston Terriers (Rufus and Alice) and a Calico Cat (Lotte)
I love a good Red Wine, but I have a huge weakness for Mead and Sake.
I Love Sushi!! You want a friend for life: Bring forth the Sushi!!
I’m pretty open minded when it comes to my Television and Film watching, I do lean heavily towards science fiction and fantasy.
I’m Buddhist – and I practice at my own pace. I don’t go to any temple, as I prefer to practice alone. My biggest pet peeve is when people of other faiths attempt to push their religious ideology down my throat – it was fun to get into debates about it at one time, now I just find it Taxing.
I used to be a Hippie, Now I like to think of myself as a bit of a Bohemian – I don’t know how accurate that is in total, but it’s an idea I resonate with.
I am a Nerd and A Geek – unabashedly so. I don’t attempt to be cool about it, or smooth, or whatever. I’m not in high school anymore and I shouldn’t have to make myself look or seem like anything other than myself. It look me long enough to like myself as I am, so that’s not going to change!
I’m an Idealist, so much so that it often leads me to massive disappointment when things or people don’t turn out the way I imagine them to – can’t have it all right.
I am extremely emotional for a straight male, I wear my heart on my sleeve with a large neon arrow pointing to it.
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Thanks for liking my post. I’m enjoying your site a great deal – I think you might just be my long lost brother! Looking forward to reading more. Love your thoughts on geekiness, race, gender, etc. Thanks for being so open and out there and geeky!
Thank you so much, I’ve been checking out your site as well and you are, for sure, my long lost sister. Or, at least, the big sister that I could have had in a parallel universe. I love the way you think and relate to people. You have definitely gained yourself a fan!
All hail the parallel universes!!! And you have gained a fan as well!